Mid-Week...how are we doing?

So far:

I baked a few things with the kids (the fudge came out really good, especially since I never made it before).

I had time with both Cathy and Marina.

I listened to Christmas CDs.

I bought Christmas cards (we'll take a family photo Monday to put in them).

Tonight is our church's Thanksgiving Eve service at 7.

I'll try to pull out the Christmas tree and ornaments tonight after work, before church

After dinner tomorrow, we'll probably decorate the tree and make ice cream with the kids.

Thanksgiving week hopes

This year, I'm hoping to make the holidays less commercial and more meaningful, even though I'm working. Here's a list of my Thanksgiving Week hopes:

1. bake with the kids
2. make homeade ice cream with the kids
3. introduce the Advent Wreath and it's meaning
4. attend a Thanksgiving Eve service at church
5. set up my Victorian Christmas tree
6. listen to Christmas CDs (TransSiberian Orchestra's rock, and Manheimm Steamroller)
7. buy and start filling out Christmas cards
8. go out to eat Friday night with the family - my treat
9. have lunch with both Cathy and Marina this week
10. help the kids make gifts for my in-laws

I'll let you know how it goes.

Neil Simon's Fools

Adam was in another play tonight, Neil Simon's play FOOLS. It's about a village that believes it's under a curse that makes them stupid. OMG it's such a funny play! Adam played the magistrate who was in charge of marrying the main characters.

It's possible this may be his last play. It's not cheap to be in drama, and it's a lot of time and money if you've only got a tiny part.

I've watched Adam in so many shows, The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, Cinderella the Musical, Antshillvania, The Music Man, and now Fools. I'm always so proud of him (and Logan when he's in a play too). Moezart Productions has been such a blessing to our family, especially for bringing Adam out of his shell and giving him back his self-confidence. We've been so fortunate to have found (by accident) a Christian Production Company run by a homeschooled, missionary woman who loves kids as much as Sharon does.

I have to admit, the "Drama Mamas" I've met have become some of my closest friends, too. I'll really miss them if we're through with drama. Logan has interests in learning technical sound & lights stuff from Sharon's husband Steve, so maybe we'll still be around behind the scenes.

State Fair Photos

It's hard to match up wording to photos since blogs sometimes shift order so here's some basics:

We took photos from the biggest ferris wheel (and the sky ride), you can see the city's skyline in the background in a few pictures. Jordan loved her ice cream, she's spent 3 weeks trying to drop a few pounds to fit into a new shirt she has with a monkey on it. She did it, so I let her get a small cone as a treat. Logan went on his first roller coaster today - all by himself. The kids loved the hydro slide, it's a smaller version of Canobie Lake Park's Boston Tea Party ride back in NH.

Adam stayed home to work on school and babysit (his choice, I begged him to come, and he gets paid to babysit 2 girls Jordan plays with).

What else can I tell you? Oh, the strange photo that's first is looking straight up through the ferris wheel's spokes. I think it's the biggest one I've ever been on, but I don't know how tall it was.

ENJOY!

The State Fair

This is the time of year we have our huge state fair. I went with Tim when we first got married back in 1992. We've lived here for years now and never brought the kids. It runs for a few weeks, but it's either too expensive or not convenient, but this week, we're going to try to go on my day off. Their last experience was the Rochester Fair in NH. It was small, very "country", had a tiny petting zoo, a few rides that were expensive, no music or entertainment, not much to do. It's okay when the kids are little, but with them being 14, 12 and 10, it takes more to amuse them these days.

We'll hopefully get to see things that will expose them to the surrounding cultures in this part of the country, maybe they'll get to try new foods (no, we won't try deep-fried CocaCola or anything too unhealthy), maybe they'll even see an entertainer or two.

Anyway, with them getting so big so quickly, I really hold every moment with them as being very precious. I'm looking forward to spending the day with them playing. I don't like our only interaction to be school or chore-related.

If we make it there, I'll post photos.

The Holidays are Coming

This week was the week the Holiday season was introduced. I saw ads for Kmart lay-a-way plans for Christmas, and we put out all the holiday decorations we'll be selling at work. This weekend is our Harvest Tea when we have menu changes to include pumpkin and other fall foods.

Even though this year we won't be putting up a tree (where would we put it?) and won't be spending on gifts (one family gift this year instead - money's too tight), I'm still looking forward to it. Maybe without the pressure of spending, we'll figure out how special the holidays really are. Maybe this will be the year the kids will finally learn to be thankful for all that we have in spite of how broke we've been. Maybe this year they'll make each other gifts, or better yet, focus on volunteering to serve others.

There's lights to see, parades, church pageants, and so much more to do for free here that we can still enjoy the holiday season without going deeper into debt.
Maybe my next post will have to do with things I'm thankful for - in advance of Thanksgiving.

Not a bad two weeks...

In spite of a few minor setbacks, the last two weeks have been extremely productive for me. I've managed to put 3 new people in our business in just 14 days, and got 2 inactive people to become much more active (that credit goes to Tim's Dad). Also, when I started working at Abbey Gardens we were 5th in the state according to a popular website - and the last 4 comments were made by my customers - and we moved up to 4th, then 3rd, and we now sit at #2 in the State for tea rooms. The number one spot is held by a place that isn't a tea room at all, it's more of a Starbucks for tea, no food, no atmosphere, not an experience, just a place to buy tea in take-out cups.

Also, we've made it through the rough spots of Honors Algebra I and Spanish with my oldest, we're working on more responsibility and accountability with our middle child, and the youngest is really progressing in her Math and Science classes.

Tim's also having some great days at work, and my customers have been wonderful, especially in their tipping. So we're caught up on bills instead of falling behind (lowered gas prices and deals on groceries really has helped lately too).

So all in all, life is good and progressing forward.
We're even planning a trip after the first of the year and it looks like we'll be able to pay cash for it. We've been consistently making a few hundred bucks a week with our business. Our goal is to earn $2000/month with it so I can come home and be a full-time, homeschooling Mom again. Then the kids can participate in more stuff because I'll be available during the day to take them.

Life is good.

What an amazing day!!!

Yesterday afternoon, a bunch of us from our Tuesday morning Ladies' Bible Study went to the home of Pastor Phil Toole and his wife for a baptism. There were over 35 people who made the decision to declare to the world that they will follow Jesus in obedience and choose to be baptized as he was.

Growing up Catholic, we were baptized as babies, and that was taught to mean you "made it into heaven". As I got older and read the Scriptures for myself, I realized what it really said, that only by believing Jesus already paid the price for your sins (the wages, or cost, of sin is death) will you go to Heaven. Baptism is a personal choice you make, often as an adult, but also as a child or teen who understands. It's like "coming out" where you're telling the world you want to follow Christ, obey him, be more like him.

In the picture are my friends: Diane, Cassandra, Sallie, Laurie, and Tracy. There were another dozen of us or so that came to cheer them on and be a part of this special ceremony with them. We are family. Sisters in Christ.

I Have New Recipes!

Working at my favorite restaurant, which happens to be an elegant, Victorian tea parlour, has been great for adding new recipes to my family's meals! Check these out:

Tropical Scones
(Cold) Strawberry Soup
Chicken salad in a cucumber boat
Mimosa salad (with oranges & strawberries)
Turkey sandwiches w/Rasp. Cream Cheese

...just to name a few...

I really do enjoy cooking for my family when I'm home long enough! Tonight no one was really hungry, Adam & Tim weren't home, so I whipped up Caprese salad and Strawberry Soup. Light, sweet, healthy, and easy!

Next I may branch out to some of the desserts, which scares me since I'm a cook, NOT a BAKER. There's a huge difference! I'm going to try to make either the Lemon Bars or their Black Cherry White Chocolate Bars...when I get up the nerve.

Saguaro Lake

Here's our recent 2 trips to Saguaro Lake. It's about 1/2 an hour from here but never found it before this year. Here's Jordan after a mud fight with Logan, Logan making hot dogs in a solar cooker he built, Me & Tim (but the sun was in our eyes), and Adam with a large reed he found and made into a Tiki Torch. He looks so tribal. His sense of humor is so funny.

This place is great. For just a $6 day pass per vehicle, you can bring stuff to grill and make a day of it. It's nice to get away to hidden places like this. It's our new favorite swimming location because it's got a soft bottom where most others you need to wear sneakers in the water because of all the rocks.

It always seems that the kids are nicer and play together better when we get away to spots like this.

It's Getting Better

I've been working for about a month now, the money's pretty good, the people are great, it's a good "team" environment, but yes, it's still a job. I miss being with my kids when I'm at work. I really enjoy teaching when I have a day off. I've got Mondays and Tuesdays off for now. That works out perfect because I get to start off the week teaching the kids what they need to do the rest of their week's work. I still get to go to my Tues. morning Bible Study. Without that, I'd never have the support and strength to get through everything else all week. Adam gets to stay in drama on Tues. afternoons (he pays for it). And if someone wants to attend a Monavie Team meeting, they're on Tues. nights so I can go to those too.

I realize by my aches and pains that I'm older than I realized, but I think the addition of so much walking at work is good for me. I'm losing weight consistently, so that's good too. I just get really tired these days. I used to deal with chronic fatigue, but since my scleroderma has been reversing itself, that's not really a problem. However, I have a new problem...I can get sick now where before my never-shutting-off immune system prevented that. I've been sick with a bad cold for over a week now, constantly struggling to breathe clear, and I can't stop blowing my nose.

It's an adjustment, but at least it's only temporary.

She's coming!!!

I've waited for over a year now for my best friend to move here from Boston. I've known she was coming and the waiting has been so hard! We talk on the phone for hours every time - what'll it be like when she's finally here? We have so much catching up to do. The last 15 years we've been apart trying to build a life for ourselves, figuring out how to be good wives, etc., now we can learn and grow together.

I'm so excited to meet her husband again too. We met him briefly around 5 years ago, but it was the last weekend before we moved here, it was at a family and friend gathering where I'd been away a long time and he was fairly "new", so we didn't talk too much. We probably were thinking the same things that day, though. My friend is forever telling me how wonderful and intelligent he is, how much she respects him, and would do anything in the world for him. That's so refreshing to hear in today's "me-me-me" society. I'm sure I'll learn to love him like a brother. She's been my long-lost twin for most of our lives: we think alike, finish each other's sentences, enjoy and respect the same things, married very similar men, have identical thoughts (and words) within 24 hours of each other, even though we're 3000 miles apart. It's going to be the best thing for me to have her in my life again. I barely can come up with words to describe how much she means to me. The weekend I last saw her, before our move, I cried my eyes out at the thought of not seeing her again. I never cried saying goodbye to my family, friends, church members, neighbors, but with her, I was so scared to let go of her. We've been through so much together. Now we can go through EVERYTHING together. My kids already call her "Auntie ________ " when she calls.

I pray that she'll be here as soon as possible. It's less than a month to go now.

My new job at Abbey Gardens

If I have to work, what a great place. I get to work with great people who understand the importance of serving others' needs, take a team approach to getting jobs done, everything that surrounds me is Victorian, girly, porcelain and beautiful, it's perfect. I also don't have to be at work before 10:30, so I can teach the kids for 2 hours even on days I work. I'm home by supper. I keep my Tuesday's off for Bible study, drama and business meetings. I even get Sundays off for church. I couldn't make as much money working hourly anywhere else. Although I'd rather be home with my kids full-time, I'm still truly blessed by God's favor.

Top 10 Things About Lisa

1. I'm a server at Abbey Gardens tea house now.
2. I'm writing a Genesis Bible Study to teach at church this fall.
3. I play drums, but I'm self-taught and still learning.
4. I'm an avid scrapbooker.
5. I love homeschooling my 3 kids - I believe it's my true "calling".
6. I love building my Monavie business (www.the-team.biz/mv909588)
7. I love to cook but hate to bake.
8. I've gone as organic as possible on our budget, also no white flour, sugar or corn syrup in our home.
9. I love living in Arizona, although we could use a bigger house in a real "neighborhood".
10. My favorite subject to study and teach is American History.

What a busy week!

This has been a busy week and it's not over yet. My Tuesdays are always busy anyway, then Jordan and I went to spend some time with a dear friend on Wed. We used to see her and her daughter all the time, but since summer came, and everyone's busy and gone, it's been pretty near impossible. It did me good to be around her, she's like me: she has every reason to claim "I'm a victim" yet she goes through life with a positive, loving attitude, always the first one to help, and never asking for anything in return. She's always so happy. When I don't get spend time with her for a while, I find myself getting too serious. She reminds me that you can't control life anyway, so have fun with it.

Thursday I got to see another friend I've missed, along with her step-daughter. We spent time talking about everything we've been dealing with lately, and stuff that we need answers for. We're able to be honest with one another - what you see is what you get - no pretenses - and encourage one another to grow and become better. Afterwards, we spent about 2 hours in and around the pool. It was perfect because it forced me to get fresh air when I probably would've spent most of the day writing on the computer, otherwise.

Friday was Adam's 8th grade graduation, so it was a little crazy...we (us and Tim's parents) drove downtown, dropped Adam off for practice, drove to 2 car dealerships, picked up Tim, picked up Adam, ate supper at a slow-paced restaurant, then the ceremony itself - all in the same 6 hours.

Today was okay, we had a small celebration for Jordan's 10th bday (Sunday), and I had to run Adam to a friend's on the other side of town. Oh yeah, and I had about 4 loads of laundry to do!

Sunday we try out a new church. It's one of the ones on TV, so I'm already skeptical. Then I have to practice my drums and spend the rest of the day writing my Genesis curriculum so I'll be done before Sept. 8th.

Monday I take Jordan to the tea house for her real bday celebration: The 2 of us, 2 of my friends, and their 2 daughters, Jordan's friends. We only get with them once a year, so we really look forward to the quality time we get with them.

Tuesday - the week starts all over again - busy!

Only a few weeks left...

This summer has flown by. What have I done? Well, let's see...I found a fun place to hang out called As You Wish. They have pottery there and you paint it, they fire it in the kiln and you pick it up 3 days later. So far I made Jordan a fairy, a gift soup bowl for my father-in-law, and then a decorative dessert plate for my friend's birthday.

I didn't swim every day this summer like I normally do. It seems like I've had other stuff to do, appointments, stuff that took up my summer.

I spent a few hours today swimming and talking with a friend of mine, but I haven't done that at all this whole summer until today.

School starts back up in just about 6 weeks, so I better figure out what it is I want to do before it's too late and I'm too busy...

I'll go to a movie tonight, and the tea house on Monday, and spend time with a friend tomorrow. Maybe that's enough. Maybe it's a summer to rest, stay indoor where it's air conditioned, and just write.

Latest on our Monavie Business

Well, it's been 4 months, just about 120 days or so, and we've made it to the levels of Star, Star 500, Star 1000, and we'll be at the Bronze level soon. We started with nothing but the help of Tim's parents and our own few contacts, and now we've got around 109 people in our group. This is the easiest thing we've ever done - and the most fun! We're making money consistently and let me tell you, people are LOOKING for something!

Our oldest just signed up and made his own contacts that we'll be meeting with this week. Imagine, by the time he's done high school, he could be making thousands of dollars a week, own his own house, pay cash for his car and toys (motorcycles, 4-wheelers), and never have to work for anyone else his entire life. He's faithful at giving to charity too, so I know his heart's in the right place and his focus is right.

Where else can you sign up to own a business for just $39, order just 4 bottles of juice that makes you healthier, and within 30 days, you've recouped ALL your cost, plus made enough to pay for your NEXT month's supply too!?! The money is absolutely crazy, it doesn't take hundreds of people to make a few bucks, the product actually tastes great, and the only risk is cheaper than a tank of gas or one dinner out for two?!

Everyone should at least TRY this!

End of June already?!

This month flew by! I got some things accomplished from my To Do List, but others didn't quite get finished as I'd hoped. I guess it's time for my July list to be compiled. Here's what'll be important to me so far:

July bdays posted on my Family blog, send bday and anniversary cards to family and friends, rest on the 4th, play drums more than once a week, swim more, eat better, reach the next level in our business (made it through the first 3 already! Yeah!),
attend a seminar, finish Phase I of my Genesis project, donate another bag of my clothes that are too big or too small, have tea with my daughter for her birthday at our favorite tea parlour with 2 of her friends she otherwise doesn't see for months at a time, drop 10 more pounds, go to my son's 8th grade graduation, and enjoy a 2 week break from my 2 youngest as they visit their grandparents up in the mountains.

And if I'm lucky, maybe I can get away for 2 days at the end of July to the mountains too.

More Memories Gone

This morning I read online that the China Tea House in the town I grew up in, burned down. This was a favorite hangout for me and my friend Michelle. It seems like we must've eaten there almost every week for years once I got my driver's license. We spent hours there laughing and sharing. They used to have Chinese lanterns over each table and although I'm not proud of it today, it used to be a challenge to take a tassel off the lamp and leave with it, without getting caught. By the time we'd spent a year or two going there, most table lanterns were missing quite a few. I don't even know what I did with all of them. We also took a napkin and a coconut shaped drink cup...yeah, we were young and stupid, and not yet Christians.

You know, we also lost our wedding location a few years ago when the property was sold and knocked down for something else. It just goes to show, you need to get pictures of meaningful places and things - not just people - because nothing lasts forever, and later on, that photo will be all you have to remember it, and share it with your loved ones in stories of fond memories.

Summer Plans

What a great summer this is going to be. Although I won't get to do everything I'd like to do, like attending my sister's wedding and visiting family/Boston, or getting to San Diego, it's still going to be great.

My oldest and youngest will be spending 3 weeks at their grandparents' house both visiting and earning money doing odd jobs. That'll give me some time to spend with my "middle child" to try to calm his angry spirit. He's been so quick to lose his temper for so long, I hope some one-on-one time will help calm him down. He gets a lot of attention, but if his siblings do too, it's like his didn't count.

After that, he'll get to spend 2 weeks up there where he loves it so much. I don't know yet if the other 2 will come home at that time, or if one will come home, or if all 3 will be there - and I may be child-less for 2 weeks - wouldn't that be amazing?!

In any case, I'll get to relax, spend time by the pool, sleep til 8 or 9, read stuff "for me" for a change, and who knows what else! It's just what I need before we start up our new curriculum in August.

Although I love to travel, with gas being over $4/gallon soon, and maybe even up to $5/gallon before summer's over, I'm glad our major business convention is right here in the city. Last year we had to go all the way to Utah, but this year, we'll save money, don't need to stay in a hotel or eat out that weekend, so we can spend less than usual.

I'm really looking forward to this summer.